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Love is like business: Be patient and you will find the perfect
match!
First tip to you guys out there looking for love in
Thailand is this one: Never, ever fall in love with a
bargirl or another kind of sex worker!!!! More than 90% of all
relationships with a bargirl fails within a few months! That's a fact!
So why gamble and risking a broken heart? And an empty wallet and bank
book? Well....you can be amongst the lucky 5 to 10%..... but why take
the risk? Better be safe than sorry....don't involve emotionally
with a bargirl...she has everything to win....you
have everything to loose!
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Don't be a twit! In Thailand, being too old, too small
or too ugly doesn't prevent a regular guy from winning over the girl of
his dreams but, even here, all bets are off if you're an incorrigible
twit!
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Stay away from the dating and introduction
agencies....their main goal is to rip you off your money and their
second goal is to rip you off your money! Most of the girls in their
books are bargirls and the remaining girls are non-existent! In other
words....most of the agencies are fake....fake girls, fake profiles and
fake photos....once you've paid, you never hear from them again!
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Take it with a grain of salt when a Thai lady says she
loves you after you've known her for say a week! Remember the saying -
there are 3 reasons why a Thai lady marries a foreigner:
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Money
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Money
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Money
Well....not quite true! But let's just admit that
most of the Thai ladies who marry a foreigner do it to escape from
poverty and to provide money for her family. Other reasons is that
foreign men are considered more responsible than Thai men. Also
foreigners are not likely to care much about previous relationships and
virginity like Thai men are. And not to forget that Thailand has more
men than ladies, so not every Thai lady can find a Thai man for
marriage, she simply has to look outside the country borders!
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98% of the Thai women you meet in any chat room on the
Internet are prostitutes looking for an extra income! Be warned!
Honest and reliable Thai woman would hardly engage in chatting with a
total stranger - not even in a chat room! Don't ever let any Thai woman
you met in a chat room convince you that she is "special" "different"
and "respectable"....because the fact that you met her in a chat room
proves that she is not respectable and just one of the usual con
girls!
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So how and where do you find "normal" and honest Thai
girls? Here are some tips and tricks:
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Forget the bars, go-go bars and discos! (Of course
:-)
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Forget the hotel receptionists and waitresses (A
perfect job for a con girl!)
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Also forget the tour guides who probably already
have several boyfriends!
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Forget the girls you meet with loads of gold
chains, fashion clothes and expensive taste (They are most likely
professional con girls!)
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Ordinary Thais do not speak English well. So
beware of girls who speak fluent English! Even she claims she has a
university degree! (She has probably learned it between the many
boyfriends she has engaged in :-)
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Respectable girls will be busy during the day.
Beware of girls who can easily book time off!
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Thai brides are expected to be virgins. So if its
too easy to get into her pants, then she is easy too!
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Keep away from girls that smoke, drink and have
tattoos (Its a clear sign that they are not respectable!)
So what is left if you're looking for a long term
girlfriend or wife? There are plenty of places where you can meet a
decent girl! Don't despair! Just remember one thing: A respectable Thai
girl never approach you directly! Its against their culture and nature!
Make sure you make the first move!
Here we go - here is how and where to meet a decent
girl:
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Your local food store or shopping mall - Girls
love shopping and most of the shop workers and cashiers are girls
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Language courses/schools - Many respectable girls
study in their spare time and most of them will be happy to practice
their language skills
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If you're doing business in Thailand you will
meet plenty of nice girls
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Dine out at the local Thai restaurants and food
stalls where the local girls and Thai tourists eat
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Be patient!! - Thais are shy but most
willingly to befriend a foreigner. And don't forget to remember how
love is in your home country!! It takes time to find the right
match! The best thing is to live in Thailand, learn about the
culture and the language and make inroads into social circles where
you'll ultimately meet your perfect partner.....or at least think of
coming back several times; familiarize yourself with the place
before taking the plunge with anyone! Good luck :-)
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